As I look ahead to November, I’m present to my own desire for kindness, gratitude, and a gentler daily experience right now. Thanksgiving is my favorite holiday. I love the meal prep with my children, the decorating, I begin listening to holiday music while we cook and it sets the stage for appreciation of the year for… View Article
70%. 70% to goal and I haven’t missed a day. It feels better today than it did in the messy middle. Somehow, 70% seems like I’ve turned the 2/3- most of the way – you’ve got this corner. In this moment, I’m feeling confident about reaching 1,000 daily blog posts. For those of you playing along, I check in every… View Article
Tao Te Ching says “Your conversations help create your world. Speak of delight, not dissatisfaction. Speak of hope, not despair. Let your words bind up wounds, not cause them.” This is a great reminder for me. I’m the person who enters the space and sees what’s off. Whether it’s in my home, at work or out in… View Article
We have a new “thing” and are about empowering those who empower others. Would you like to join in? We hope so! Here’s the game: Reach us here: info@sayyess.com with your physical address. We’ll send you an empowering note and include a postage paid note for you to send to someone else. You do the writing, and we’ll pay… View Article
Letting go of expectations can be a challenge. When your kids aren’t winning (contrasted to blog #696) it’s as if everything you do or have done has failed. At least it feels that way to me. Seeing them sad, struggling, disconnected, or challenged in life is hard. The best phrase I’ve ever heard to describe it is… View Article
There’s something so powerful about seeing your kids winning. I’m not talking about sports or school, I’m talking overall. When you watch them win, it’s better than winning yourself. When they are fully engaged, expressing themselves most powerfully, connecting, poised and successful it’s magic. It’s a kind of validation that’s hard to describe, seemingly making… View Article
Autumn in Minnesota is filled with transition. Green morphs into vibrant oranges, reds and golds, with crisp air opening and closing our days. It’s a time of anticipating sweaters while also hanging onto the lingering days of the summer. It’s a time where things speed up from the more relaxed pace of summer and speed into the… View Article
What if the “great resignation” was actually the single biggest opportunity for the “great elevation?” What if this time in history was an opportunity to realign ourselves with our highest and best use? To design and live successful, fulfilling lives inside and outside of work? What if instead of worrying about attracting talent, we magnified meaning at work… View Article
Don’t let yourself and your team go on autopilot. I was facilitating a session and the leaders came in on the second day of their annual planning ready to go. What I mean is, two of them were simmering overnight – and came in disrupted and ready to challenge the rest of the leadership team…. View Article
I’ve been working with this team for years and they sailed through their first day of planning. This was a first. They typically struggle to focus, but not this time. They disconnected from their electronics, and we took more frequent breaks – game changer! What I’ve observed with hundreds of teams is a simple, but… View Article
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