May 9, 2025 8:09 am Published by

1600 blogs. Yep, you read that right. That’s a lot of thoughts, a lot of life, and a surprising amount of self-doubt. But more than that, it’s a lot of lessons—some hard, some humbling, and some that make me wonder how I ever survived without them. So, I thought it might be worth sharing 10 of the most important lessons I’ve picked up along the way. Thank you again Seth Godin for this challenge! 

  1. Starting is the Hardest Part. 
    Writing can be terrifying. I’m in the middle of writing the next book and you’d think it would get easier? It doesn’t. When I began to blog, I stared at the blinking cursor like it was going to attack me. It didn’t. It just waited for me to begin, which is exactly what I needed to do. If I had waited until I was “ready,” I’d still be waiting. So, start. Whatever it is, even if you’re not ready. Especially if you’re not ready. 

  1. Consistency is the Secret to it All. 
    It’s not about nailing it every time. It’s about showing up. Consistently. There were (are) days when I didn’t feel like writing, but I did anyway. And on those days, I learned more than I thought I would. Consistency isn’t glamorous, but it works. More than that, it’s the cornerstone to building confidence in yourself.  

  1. Perfection is a Myth. 
    If I had waited for my writing to be perfect, I’d still be editing the first blog. Imperfection is where the magic happens. So, embrace the flaws. It’s how you learn, grow, and eventually get better. If you want to learn more about this, read our book. 

  1. Being You is the Most Important Thing. 
    I spent a lot of time trying to sound like other people when I first started writing. I wanted to be witty like this person or profound like that one. But here’s the thing: trying to be anyone else just makes you forget who you are. Be you, your way. That’s who people connect with.  

  1. Feedback is Your Friend. 
    I know, I know. No one likes feedback. But it’s like the gym for your life actually. You have to take the feedback (even the hard stuff) if you want to get stronger. It stings at times, but it’s worth it. Every. Single. Time. Oh, and some of us have a hard time with positive feedback – this applies here as well. 

  1. Stories Stick. 
    We’re wired to remember stories. Facts are great, but stories? Stories are magic. They help your message stick, they make people feel something, and they make the whole process way more fun. So, tell stories. Even if they’re a little weird. A well-placed metaphor is magic. 

  1. Write (and Live) with Purpose. 
    I’ve written many blogs that were just okay, and I’ve written blogs that felt like I was putting a tiny piece of my soul on the page. The difference? Intent. Write (and live) with purpose. Write (live) with the goal of making an impact, not just filling space (similar to how you show up every day). It changes everything. 

  1. Curiosity is Your Best Friend. 
    If you think you have all the answers, you’re doing it wrong. Curiosity is the key to everything. The best answers come from the questions you’re asking, not the answers you already have. Keep wondering. Keep learning. Don’t give up, the breakthrough is on the other side of the hardest part. 

  1. Celebrate the Small Wins. 
    It’s easy to focus on the big milestones, the 1600th blog, the thousands of views. But if you only celebrate the big stuff, you’re missing out on the small moments that actually make the journey worth it. Celebrate the win of the day. Celebrate each lesson. Celebrate each step. 

  1. Don’t Stop. 
    There were plenty of times I thought about quitting. 2025 has certainly pushed my limits already. Life is messy, busyness gets in the way, and things get complicated. But here’s what I’ve learned: you don’t get better by stopping. You get better by continuing. So, keep going. Even on the tough days. Especially on the tough days. While you may feel alone at times, you’re not. Ask for help, it’s there for you. 

So, what have I learned at 1600 blogs? That I’m not the same person I was when I started. And that’s the point, isn’t it? We grow, we evolve, and we keep showing up. The journey isn’t always glamorous, but it’s always worth it. Here’s to the next leg of the journey and life – and whatever it’s here to teach me. 

    What’s the biggest lesson you’ve learned in your own journey? Let me know in the comments. 

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