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111 Veiled Requests #1855

Published on May 1, 2026 Written by

When someone complains, what’s really happening?  When we complain it’s because we had different expectations in mind. If you can pause to think, you’ll realize every complaint is a veiled request. When we’re unable to reframe our irritation into a request, we comment about what’s wrong, missing, or shouldn’t be happening the way it is now.  It’s easy to roll our eyes or get frustrated and defensive when faced with a complaint, but what could we learn… View Article

111 Back to Basics #1854

Published on April 30, 2026 Written by

When things get chaotic and seem to be out of control, disorganized, or out of sorts, it’s easy for overwhelm to be the result.  When this happens, we must rely on structure and process to bring us back to a focused and organized world.  One step at a time, we must look at our world from a 10,000 foot view and then zero in… View Article

111 10 Questions to Return Your Focus #1853 

Published on April 29, 2026 Written by

Focus. We sometimes talk about it like a talent we can call upon at will or an elixir we can consume. Sometimes it feels like you’re right on track, incredibly focused. There’s a flow and ease with all you’re doing.  Then, there are the other times. The times when you feel scattered, overwhelmed, anxious, or distracted.   It feels more productive to be focused, and if you, like me, have an orientation… View Article

111 Spontaneity and Joy #1852

Published on April 28, 2026 Written by

I like to plan and be efficient. When I look at my actions and patterns, I’m driven to consistently improve and simplify those things I repeatedly do.  When Kevin and I travel, we plan things and enjoy our time together regardless.  Yet, when I reflect on the most memorable, vibrant and enjoyable times in my life, they were almost always spontaneous.   We wake up with no intended plans, begin with… View Article

111 Applying Your Learning #1851

Published on April 27, 2026 Written by

Do you really need to learn new things?   I was in a conversation with some people hiring us to present a keynote in a few months and they told me they’d heard all they needed to about one of our topics. We suggested another topic and they said they’d heard that as well.   After more discussion, I suggested they may need a different speaker.   They didn’t want… View Article

111 The Key to Clarity #1850 

Published on April 24, 2026 Written by

Say exactly what you mean.   There’s a concept! It’s very non-Midwestern.   You won’t always be popular or please people, but you will be clear.   You’ll also find the world around you (people, opportunities, events and rewards) will amplify.  Too often, when trying to please others or deliver the message you think others want to hear instead of saying exactly what you mean in a kind… View Article

111 My Question #1849

Published on April 23, 2026 Written by

I’m asking myself a question these days which moves me in much more certain directions. It’s become the mantra I need at this time in my life and in business.  The question is clarifying. It helps me say “no” much more confidently.   Saying no has created space and confidence as more and more situations are calling for my attention. … View Article

111 Planning for the Win #1848

Published on April 22, 2026 Written by

Planning. It’s not everyone’s priority or gift. Yet, it helps to create the best results most of the time.   Notice I didn’t say a “plan?”  When you get to wed to the plan, you will fail every time. Plans are rigid; they assume all the circumstances and factors influencing what will happen are known. That’s NEVER possible. Even when you’ve done something a thousand times.  … View Article

111 Life Unfolding #1847

Published on April 21, 2026 Written by

The signs are there.   Can you see them?  When you’re present, it’s like entering the Matrix.   Everything slows down.   The pieces of the puzzle emerge and assemble themselves into a new, vibrant picture of what’s possible.   The picture isn’t accessible without letting go of where you are. It means leaving what’s comfortable, predictable, and has served you to arrive at the next version of you.  Success can be a… View Article

111 Take a Clarity Break #1846

Published on April 20, 2026 Written by

As I led a leadership and management communication workshop last week, I was reminded again of the Clarity Break’s power. Whether you call it a Clarity Break, thinking time, or time to work on your business, having space in your week to pause and reflect is critical if you want to be a great leader.   All the leaders in the workshop agreed…. View Article

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